Don’t try to be someone else. I know many gentlemen still think that stereotype is true in reality, so they think maybe being like a playboy might be able to get them hookups. Actually, trying to be like someone else is exactly the reason why you fail to have tinder hookup. No one can be a better you than yourself. You need to know first that you are already good enough. Being confident is the most charming personality that attract people. Just be yourself.
Save the last drink. “I can have one more drink”. That is the most drunken people think when they drinking. Actually, you won’t be able to remember who you are after that glass of alcohol. Many people think it might be easier to hookup with a girl when they are drunk and all lose up. However, the fact is you won’t even know how to behave properly. How come you expect to win a girl over to spend one night with you. Besides, it is dangerous to have one night hookup with someone when you are drunk, because you won’t be able to control yourself properly. You may forget to wear condom, which might effectively lead to STD or causing unplanned pregnancy to the girl you hookup with. There are many other negative effects of hooking up with someone when you are drunk. You won’t be able to take the risks.
Don’t put much emphasize sexually. The minute you are seen as a horny sexual hunter, you won’t be able to get it. Even if you are desperately horny, don’t show it in front of girls. Even if you are only into sexual relationship, there is no need to elaborate on it too clearly. One thing makes one night dating so amazing is the uncertainty of the certainty. Everyone knows it clearly in their mind, but no one could say it out loud, if you know what I mean. Keep some mystery and allow people to imagine.
If you find it difficult to find a girl in real life, I have the last tip for you. Find them on hook up apps.